Be Thirsty for Knowledge

Creating Optimal Performance Levels in Challenging Times

Mark David
Mark David
Executive Coach,
Author

Newsletter of The Mark David Corporation - April 2010

Be Thirsty for Knowledge

Put Your Hands in the Air and
Enjoy the Ride!

What a ride it has been on this crazy economic rollercoaster!  I tell my clients day in and day out,

"Control what you
CAN control"

That’s all you can do.

One of things we can control is our attitude. We all know it is a good thing to maintain a positive mental attitude, but let’s break it down and see if we can find a new understanding of this age old concept that will help us today.

I understand, that hearing someone say, “keep a positive mental attitude” when the pressure is so great you can hardly breathe, seems like an over simplified antidote.

Based on all my research over the years, a positive mental attitude CAN and WILL make the difference between great vs. good… thriving vs. surviving. It is difficult at times while under tremendous stress, but I know you CAN do it! Here are a few tips on how to maintain a positive mental attitude.

Don’t forget, I’m only a telephone call away, 650-341-6504.

Your Coach, Mark David

Be Courageous!

Be Open!

Be Thirsty for Knowledge!

Maintain a Positive Mental Attitude

A positive mental attitude is the mindset of believing in yourself, your abilities, your job, your company and your clients.

  • Your mental state controls your entire life’s outcome.
  • A positive mental attitude must have a foundation of belief. Without belief, a positive mental attitude is merely HOT AIR. It exists for a moment, but goes away under pressure.
  • A positive mental attitude is contagious! Others will follow your example.
  • High performers remember to push their internal buttons during stressful times to activate a positive mental attitude. What internal thought will trigger your positive thought process? Many times you can create a phrase to say to yourself such as:
    • “I CAN do it!”
    • “Power Through!”
    • “This is for my family!”
    • “Rock and Roll!”
    • “Just Do It!”
  • When life gets you down and you feel your attitude start to slip, make a mental list of all the good, wonderful, and meaningful things in your life. List your accomplishments and dreams. Review positive feedback from clients, co-workers and management.
  • This mindset will help you embrace the positives of every day. It will improve your disposition, helping you gain respect and reach your goals.
Send Out an S.O.S. (Separation of Space

When you find yourself fighting to maintain a positive mental attitude, separate your emotions from a crisis to regain balance and objectivity.

  • S.O.S. is a visualization exercise to create a “Separation of Space” between an intense situation and your emotional behavior.
  • It is usually during an intense situation when people become reactive, make mistakes and generally have a negative attitude.
  • Extreme emotional “highs” and “lows” can cause you to lose your objectivity and control. You need to remain balanced and focused.
  • When you feel your emotions rising in a given situation:
    • STOP and take a breath.
    • Mentally “Send out an S.O.S.” by separating your emotional behavior from the situation.
    • View the situation objectively and openly.
    • Choose the appropriate behavior, technique or strategy to manage through the situation successfully. Think of the basics that always hold true to leading you to success.
  • The S.O.S. technique works by focusing your positive energy on a specific situation vs. allowing the stress to take hold of your attitude and behavior.
  • S.O.S. keeps you centered and allows you to make stronger, more objective decisions. S.O.S. helps you think in a proactive and positive manner.

Keep your head in the game with a positive attitude and enjoy the ride!

 

Great Tools To Help You Maximize Your Results in 2010.

The knowledge and information within each tool is timeless. If you want to perform as a high performer, these tools make it easy!

  • Coaching Illustrated ~ $14.99
    How to become a world class manager
  • The Self-Manager Success Journal ~ $14.99
    How to become a world-class performer
  • Success Strategies ~ $19.99
    How to maintain balance in cultures of high-demand
  • PONO Rock ~ $4.99
    A physical reminder to maintain balance each day

Call 800-410-2677

For access to previous newsletters, go to: www.bottomlinecoaching.com/newsletter.html

Get a daily fix of Mark David! Search The Mark David Corporation on Facebook.

The Mark david Corporation

For more information, please contact
Deme Jamson at 530-896-0603 or deme@markdavid.com.